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Friday, December 19, 2014

Almond Parsley Pesto with Cracked Freekeh and Asparagus

If I'm honest, I'm really not that big a fan of cooking. I like coming up with new twists to old fashioned (and unhealthy) dishes, but it's not something I want to be doing every day. I want quick, easy, and healthy meals, without the hassle.

I recently bought some organic cracked freekeh that has been sitting in my pantry because I had no idea what to do with it. So what's a girl to do? I scoured Pinterest for inspiration (follow me on Pinterest here), and found exactly what I didn't know I was looking for!

Before we dive into the recipe, I wanted to give you a little background on this ancient grain that is budding it's way into today's health market.

What is Freekeh?

Freekeh is a young green wheat that has been toasted and cracked. It looks like a cross between barley and brown rice and has a distinctive, nutty taste.

The grain is a powerhouse of nutrients because of the way it is prepared. Drying and roasting the young moisture-laden grains retains the nutritive value and effectively captures them at their peak state. The whole process is natural, and no preservatives or additives are needed. While the term is associated with green wheat, freekeh is actually a process, and any grain picked when young and soft and roasted can be called as such.


According to food lore, freekeh’s fiery story dates back thousands of years to around 2,300 BC. Allegedly, a Middle Eastern village came under enemy attack and their crops of young, green wheat caught fire during the siege. The villagers ingeniously found they were able to salvage their food supply by rubbing away the burned chaff to reveal the roasted wheat kernels inside. This is what we know today as freekeh, which means “to rub” or “the rubbed one.”

Freekeh became common in Mediterranean and Middle Eastern cuisines and has long been part of the food culture in countries such as Jordan, Egypt, Lebanon and Syria. It’s also become extremely popular in Australia, where modern processing of Freekeh originated.

Health Benefits of Freekeh:

  • High in protein - a half cup of freekeh has 11 g of protein, while providing zero cholesterol, saturated or trans fat.
  • Good prebiotic effect with large numbers of biofidobacterial and lactobacilli
  • Low Glycaemic Index with excellent insulin response. Wholegrain freekeh GI = 43
  • Rich in Zeaxanthin and Lutein, which have been associated with the prevention of age-related macular degeneration. May also help promote eye health.
  • High in fiber - 1/2 cup of freekeh provides 8 g of fiber which promotes digestive health, prevents the body from absorbing too much starch and sugar, lowers cholesterol, helps bowels pass quickly through the digestive track, and helps control blood sugar levels and prevent Type 2 diabetes. (According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, fiber may also help prevent various types of cancer, but further studies are needed to prove this. - Source).
  •  Full of essential nutrients such as selenium, potassium, and magnesium.

I originally found this recipe from Shape.com, and tweaked it quite a bit to fit into a meal that was clean and plant based. I did use olive oil in this recipe (which isn't exactly clean and something I usually stay away from). If you wish to avoid this, you can substitute white beans, veggie broth, or avocado in its place. Just make sure to thin it with water to get the correct consistency.

This recipe turned out better than I expected, and my 2 year old daughter even loved it! Although Nya was eating the cooked, unseasoned freekeh and raw asparagus as I was preparing it. She's my little eater...er, I mean helper!

It was delicious, incredibly filling, and extremely versatile. If you don't want to use freekeh, sub another grain instead. Quinoa, barley, rice, and farro would all work lovely in here. And don't have asparagus? Use broccoli, or any other veggie you wish. Or skip the veggie altogether since you're already adding greens to the pesto. Be flexible!

What you need:

For almond parsley pesto:

1/4 cup almonds

* 1/4 cup olive oil (See above note on substitutions)

2 cloves garlic

1 packed cup fresh parsley leaves

1 cup loosely packed greens of choice (I used spinach)

1/4 cup almond flour/meal

Pink Himalayan or sea salt

Freshly cracked black pepper

For asparagus and freekeh:

1 cup cracked freekeh

2 1/2 cups water or veggie broth

2 cloves diced or pressed garlic

1 bunch asparagus, cut into 1-inch pieces

Juice of 1 lemon

Pink Himalayan or sea salt

Freshly cracked black pepper

1/2 cup halved cherry tomatoes


What you do:

1. In food processor or blender, combine almonds, olive oil, and garlic. Pulse for 1 to 2 minutes until mixture resembles almond butter. Add parsley and greens and blend for another 2 minutes until smooth and bright green. (Add few teaspoons water if pesto is thick.) Add almond flour/meal and pulse for a few seconds to incorporate. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Set aside.

2. In a large saucepan, combine freekeh and veggie broth or water, and cook according to package directions. Remove from heat and let cool.

3. In a large skillet, water saute garlic and asparagus until just tender (about 3 minutes until bright green; do not over cook).  Remove from heat and add lemon juice. Season with salt and pepper to taste.

4. Add freekeh and pesto to the asparagus, and toss. Taste and adjust salt and pepper as needed. Add cherry tomatoes. Serve warm or at room temperature. This dish is also great as a cold "salad", and it freezes well if you want to make extra to save for another night.


Enjoy!

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Monday, December 15, 2014

Losing It.

I literally had a moment this morning....more like an entire hour, where I felt myself completely losing control of my emotions. For the first time, I was mad at my daughter.

Jamie has been gone for about 6 months. The holidays are around the corner. My family is across the country with no plans to visit. And the people I thought were my friends (all but a couple!) have completely bailed on me.

I got up this morning and reached for my wedding ring that I keep on my dresser. The place I always keep it. Yet this morning however, my wedding band was gone and only my engagement ring remained. I looked over at Nya who had wandered into my room. I vaguely remember seeing her bring her stool into my room the day before and place it in the exact spot I was now standing.

"Nya, do you know where mommy's ring is?"

"Uh-huh. I took it," she replied.

I felt the fear creeping through my body, as I began imagining the absolute worst.

Remaining calm, I asked her what she did with it. To which of course, she couldn't remember.

We only had one hour to get everything together and be out the door. As I frantically searched around the house, I wanted to scream at her, "WHAT DID YOU DO WITH MY RING?!?!"

I could tell by the look in her eyes that she felt bad, and her kind words of, "I'll help you momma," made me feel like a complete ass.

I realize it's just a ring. It's something that can be replaced. And logically, I shouldn't be making such a big deal about it.

But panic overcame me as I realized I may never find it. I broke down and cried and told Nya, "Mommy needs a minute." The panic turned to anger and utter despair. I was a wreck and I felt so close to losing it.

With Jamie gone, this is all I have of him. This ring is incredibly sacred and means so much to me. We had our rings engraved with special messages to remind each other of our love while we were apart. And now that's gone.

Nya's made a mess, ignored me, damaged things, and more, and I've always been able to remain calm and even find humor in the situation. Because at the end of the day, nothing really matters but the confidence and trust Nya has in our relationship and herself.

But this time was different. I couldn't be in the moment with her. I couldn't find the humor. The panic, fear, sadness, and anger overwhelmed me. I wanted my ring...that little part of Jamie...back.

I explained to Nya why I was so sad and how special the ring is to me because it's a gift from her daddy. We talked about my feelings because I want Nya to learn we're all human. We make mistakes. We react to situations. And that the important thing is for us to work through them together.

I told her everything would be ok, and that we would look again later.

We went about our day and my sadness and anger turned into regret. I had actually felt mad at my innocent little 2 year old. I was so close to losing it and she meant no harm. I felt awful that I could even have those feelings towards her. And I was upset that I would allow something so little ruin a moment of time we had together.


I began to think of all the children who are yelled at on a regular basis. What does this do to their self worth?

Every action we take. Every word we speak. Every tone we use. Our children are observing. They are learning their value by the world we present them with. And they will grow up to live what they learn.

What value do we give their self worth?

What kind of world do we want this to be?

Nya helped me look for my ring for half an hour before bedtime, and I continued looking for another hour after that.

It's still missing.

I'm trying to remain hopeful that it will turn up, but I'm reminding myself it is just a thing. It can be replaced. Yet the moments we have together, cannot. And each moment we're granted, can never be had again.

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Sunday, November 16, 2014

When nothing seems to go right...

I don't even know where to begin...

The craziness of the weekend began Friday, after a long drive to and from the vet for our new pup, Lulu, that we rescued a couple weeks ago (not the senior dog we were planning and looking for, but a puppy who is not potty trained!). If I hadn't had a 4 month break of Nya being out of diapers, I couldn't imagine where my sanity would be with both a puppy and toddler learning the boundaries of where to pee and poop.

When we got home, Nya and I hoped in the car (it only gets driven around the block once every other week while Jamie's gone), along with both dogs, and set out for our biweekly spin around the block.

Only to discover the car wouldn't start. The battery was completely dead.

Oh well.

The next morning we awoke to weather in the 20's. It was TWENTY SOMETHING degrees... in the south... in the middle of November! I decided we would take the day easy after our crazy week of running around. All was going well, until we sat down for dinner...

Our sensitive smoke alarms that Jamie had "fixed" started going off. The sharp shrilling wail of the siren pierced my ear drums as I scurried to get everything under control.

Lulu was running through the house completely terrified. Lexi was trying to round everyone up to get outside. And Nya was dashing through the house in her underwear shouting, "What is that? What's going on?" Over. And over. And over.

I managed to reset the smoke detectors. The windows were open and the fans were on. The bloodcurdling wail was silent for the moment.

Five minutes later they begin to wail again. Lulu peed all over the floor, and Nya, still in just her underwear, shouting "What's going on?!"followed behind me as I ran upstairs, taking all five smoke detectors out of the ceiling.

But they didn't stop!

I disconnected all the wires and they were STILL going off. In my hands! I just wanted the noise to stop!


I opened them up, ripped out the batteries out, and those suckers were still shrieking! More of a dying shriek than the initial piercing, but what the heck?!

I threw the batteries in a zip lock bag, the disengaged and empty smoke detectors in another bag, and ran them out to the garage. It crossed my mind to throw them in the garbage, but I had a flash back to a Friends episode where Phoebe had the same problem. Probably not a good idea to fully dump them. I instead hid them as far away as I could, praying they wouldn't come back to life anytime soon.

Now I was proud of myself. I had done it! Those suckers were not going to bother us anymore!

Everyone came back inside, we finished our meal, and went about our night.

....

Sunday morning came too early, and Lexi was up at 6 ready to go outside and play. All I wish for is ONE morning to sleep in. Just one.

I crawled back into bed for a bit before getting Nya. It was still freezing, but not as cold as the day before. I had planned on baking most of the day to restock some of our food in the freezer. Nya loves helping me in the kitchen so I thought it was a perfect way to spend this cold Sunday.

First, Nya managed to climb up onto the counter, reach into the spice cabinet and pull my large container of Italian Seasoning off the shelf.... ALL over the floor.


Stay calm, I told myself as Nya quickly apologized.

On to the next task...Nya was helping me stir the flour and cacao for our chocolate doughnuts. She managed to stir it right out of the bowl and all over the island, cabinets, and floor.

"I'm sorry!" she cried.

Next, we began making almond butter bars. Somehow Nya spilled an entire cup of freshly made date sugar all over the floor.

"I'm sorry!"

Why is this happening?!?!

The last thing to spill was the warm cashew milk we just finished making. Down the counter, over the cabinets, onto the floor.


My Vitamix stopped working and I nearly broke my food processor getting the pieces to attach after 15 minutes of fussing with it.

At every turn, it seemed something was going wrong. I had moments where I wanted to scream and throw everything through the window, and moments where I couldn't help but laugh. Everything was so incredibly ridiculous. How could this many things go wrong???

So we ended our day by pulling out the Christmas tree and putting it up while we listened to Christmas music. And Lulu didn't pee in the house!


As crazy as this weekend was, it is so important to me how I react in these situations now that I have a child. No matter how clumsy Nya may be, or how much easier it would be if I didn't let her help, that's not what life is about. Nya's just an innocent being who is curious and eager to help, and she is always watching and learning from me.

These situations remind me to take a step back, a deep breath, and relax. The car will start again once it's jumped. The smoke detectors are just sensitive and will be fixed when Jamie gets home. And Nya is not intending to harm.

These are just accidents, and lessons in life. I don't want to make a big deal out of things that happen, because I don't want Nya becoming fearful of making mistakes, or afraid of running into roadblocks. I want her to always be confident to try new things and realize everything can be fixed or worked through with patience....

And a little bit of laughter.

But I really, really couldn't wait for bedtime!

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Friday, November 14, 2014

Best Ever Chocolate Chip Cookies (Dairy and Refined Sugar free!)

About two years ago, I began cutting sugar out of my life. I had just had Nya, and wanted to raise her on as clean a diet as possible in order to boost her immune system and overall health, decrease her chances of illness and allergies, and set her up for a future free from common health problems we see today in America. I also knew the age old motto: "Do as I say and not as I do" simply would not work. I couldn't expect Nya to avoid sugar if I couldn't, or wouldn't, do it myself.

Little by little, I cut out processed sugars, including raw and maple syrup, and it took about 9 months to fully kick the habit. Adopting a whole food diet is essential for completely kicking sugar to the curb because sugar is added to nearly everything processed.  Even packages that claim "no sugar added" or "sugar free" have some sort of sugar substitute that is just as bad, if not worse. (Read more here from Dr. Jay Gordon).

The beginning was really tricky because I craved sweets. My body had to have them, and a handful of fresh fruit did not satisfy my craving. This is why it is so important to set your child up from the beginning with healthy eating habits. Their bodies are free from the toxins we call food. They've never had sugar, so why get them started on it? It's detrimental to their health, and that is something we do have control over, to an extent.

So to fully kick my sugar cravings, I had to replace it with something equally decadent, until it was out of my system. I began experimenting with dates (Click here to read more about the health benefits of dates), and used them in place of sugar. I started with raw desserts (these Ooey Oooey Fudgy Bars were a favorite), and moved on to baking with them once Nya was eating more solid foods.

I've found pureed dates easily replace refined sugars in just about everything, yet I had trouble recreating a cookie from whole foods that had the same texture as a traditional cookie. No matter the ratios, or how many attempts, I just could't recreate a traditional cookie purely from whole foods. I did create these amazing nutterly soft chocolate chip cookies for Nya that she absolutely loves, but they have more of a cake-like texture (fine for her, but not for me or Jamie who know what a cookie is "supposed" to taste like).

Finally it occurred to me to try date sugar. Could this be the missing link?


I purchased a small bag from Whole Foods (it's expensive!) to try out before I made my own. At first I was a bit discouraged because the batter didn't taste sweet or cookie-like at all. I thought it was going to be a complete flop, but I decided to see the recipe through. After baking, they came out perfectly! I have made these a couple times using different flours. I found the white whole wheat to work best, but did experiment with teff, oat, brown rice, and whole oats. All worked fine, but created a softer cookie.

With the holidays around the corner, I'm excited to use dates in this form to create other yummy goodies. Stay tuned for more!
This recipe does unfortunately contain 1 Tbsp of oil. I try to avoid oil as it's empty calories devoid of any nutritional value, but this was the best cleanest recipe I could come up with. Skip it if you want, but the results will very slightly. There is also sugar in the chocolate chips. Use cacao nibs if you can (slightly bitter), or skip them altogether. This is the only form of "sugar" Nya ever has, so I use it sparingly.
A couple important notes about date sugar:

  • It is expensive to purchase, but think of your family's health...how much is it worth to you?
  • If purchasing, the only ingredient should be dehydrated dates.
  • Date sugar does not dissolve easily, so the batter does not taste as good or sweet as the final product...don't be discouraged! 
  • Not ideal for teas (date paste works best here!)
  • You can easily make your own by drying out dates in the oven (very low temp) or dehydrator. Once dried, grind to a powder. (This is much cheaper but more time consuming.)


What you need:

  • 1 c date sugar
  • 2/3 c plant milk (I like cashew best!)
  • 1 Tbsp hemp oil (can skip or use another oil of choice)
  • 1 tsp vanilla
  • 1/3 c + 1 Tbsp crunchy peanut butter (no other ingredients added and creamy works too!)
  • 1 c white whole wheat flour (make sure organic to avoid GMOs)
  • 1 tsp baking powder
  • 1/4 tsp sea salt

What you do:

1. Preheat oven to 350.

2. In a medium mixing bowl, combine date sugar, plant milk, oil, vanilla, and peanut butter and stir until smooth.

3. Next add the flour, baking powder, and salt, and stir until combined.

4. Add the chocolate chips (if using), and stir until incorporated.

5. Drop onto silicon baking sheet and bake for about 12 minutes. (I rolled mine into balls for a cleaner "truffle" look). Makes about 16 cookies.

Enjoy!

I know this sounds silly, but discovering this and putting it to use is a complete game changer when it comes to desserts and sweetened foods. Sugar is addicting and has many ill side effects on our body's cells; impairing the body's ability to thrive. Your health, your choice. Choose wisely for your child!


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Saturday, November 8, 2014

Split Pea, Lentil, and Veggie Soup

We somehow managed to bypass fall and move straight into winter. With this colder weather and these darker nights, I have been craving hot soups and stews. I recently picked up some fresh fennel at the market, and wanted to use it up. Embarrassingly, I have never cooked with fresh fennel before, but soup sounded like the right place to start.

I used up veggies I had on hand, and added the green split peas and lentils for variety, extra protein, and fiber. The split peas and lentils are also what tie everything together, creating a soup with thicker consistency. I wasn't sure exactly what I was creating when I started out, but I absolutely loved what it turned into! 

This recipe is super easy,can be made ahead, or even prepared in the crock pot or pressure cooker. It can also be changed based on the veggies you happen to have on hand. Want to use sweet potato instead of red potatoes? No problem! Need to get rid of some broccoli? Use it!

I don't typically add salt because I'm trying not to pass on my salt addiction to Nya, so use it to your liking! (I always add it to my bowl later!)


What you need:
  • 1 large onion, chopped
  • 1 - 2 fresh fennel bulbs, chopped
  • 20 cloves fresh garlic, minced or chopped (can sub 3 tsp garlic powder)
  • 10 - 12 small red potatoes, chopped into cubes
  • 2 medium zucchini, chopped in thick halves
  • 4 medium carrots, peeled and sliced
  • 28 oz fire roasted tomatoes, diced (can also use 1.5 c fresh diced tomatoes)
  • 1.5 cup chopped greens (I used kale, spinach, and chard)
  • 1/2 c green split peas, uncooked
  • 1/2 c red lentils, uncooked
  • 3 Tbsp cumin
  • 1 Tbsp turmeric
  • 1 Tbsp thyme
  • 1 - 2 tsp red pepper flakes 
  • Salt and pepper to taste

What you do:

1. In a large pot, add veggie broth, onion, fennel, and garlic, and cook on medium for  5 minutes.

2. Add potatoes and cook an additional 5 minutes on medium heat.

3. Add remaining veggies and tomatoes, cover, and cook on low heat for 5 minutes.

4. Add green split peas, red lentils, cumin, turmeric, thyme. red pepper flakes, salt and pepper and cook, covered, on low for about 15 - 20 minutes, until lentils have nearly dissolved.

* If using a crock pot, add all ingredients and cook on low heat for 4 - 6 hours. If using a pressure cooker, add all ingredients and cook on high for about 15 - 20 minutes. 

5. Serve and enjoy! Makes about 12 servings. (I freeze half!)

Why these foods?




More Soup and Stew Favorites...

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Friday, November 7, 2014

The Second Year.

Just over a year ago, I sat down to start writing my journey with parenthood. Nya had just turned one, and I remember sitting down, planning to share about her first year of life and what I had learned. What I ended up writing, was how my marriage changed and the struggles we went through as partners during that first year of Nya's life. It was the most challenging and difficult year I have ever faced, and what made it harder was the idea I had in my mind of what it was supposed to be. (Read more here).


I don't think enough people talk about what really goes on behind closed doors. Understandably so. It makes you raw, vulnerable, and open to criticism. But no marriage is perfect, even those that seem like they might be.

Marriage is work, and becomes more challenging with each additional responsibility (children, finances, pets, health problems, etc.).  Life becomes a juggling act, and when you're pulled in so many different directions, you forget to make time to connect with one another. And when you don't make the time to connect now, you will feel the effects of it later.

"A great marriage isn't something that just happens; 
it's something that must be created." 
~ Fawn Weaver

This second year of Nya's life was much easier on our relationship than the first. Nya eating more solid foods, becoming more independent, less breastfeeding, and restful nights helped tremendously. But we also had to dig deep within ourselves and take accountability for what we were, and were not, bringing to the relationship.

I had to get over my anger, hurt, and bitterness towards Jamie for not being there in the way I expected and wanted him to be. We both had to let go of the past in order to be present in the moment and move forward into our future.

It isn't easy. We still struggle. He still drives me insane half the time. And those "helpful little tidbits" of how to parent Nya (when he's not even here!) will probably always have me seeing red.

The point is, you're never alone. Every relationship goes through it's ups and downs. No marriage is easy. Some may be easier than others. There may be months where life couldn't be more perfect. Hang tight and enjoy each moment for what it is. For in the challenging times you grow, and in the easy times you learn.

Every moment is a gift.

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Monday, November 3, 2014

Lemon Garlic Wild Rice and Veggies (Dairy & Oil Free) - Ready in 10 minutes!

I don't know if it's the weather, life with a toddler, or the seemingly endless responsibilities that pile up daily, but I have been very lazy in the kitchen lately. I want to make the quickest, easiest, and healthiest meal possible with very little effort.

Enter in this Lemon Garlic Wild Rice and Veggies meal. It's super easy (ready in 10 minutes), can be made with any veggies you happen to have on hand (fresh or frozen), and just about any grain (pasta, quinoa, millet, and any kind of rice) work; this is the recipe that keeps on giving because you can make it many different ways!

I've made this numerous times, with many variations, as noted above, and it is always filling, delicious, easy, and healthy. If you tend to be short on time during the week, batch cook rice, quinoa, or millet, and store in the freezer. Take out the night before, or even as you prepare the meal, to save on time. Freezing these foods will not effect the consistency, but I would avoid freezing pasta.


What you need:

3 cups cooked wild rice  (quinoa, millet, pasta, rice)

3 cups fresh or frozen veggies of choice (I've used asparagus, broccoli, cauliflower, carrot, squash, zucchini, cherry tomatoes, onions, peppers, green beans, kale, spinach - all are great but the tomatoes are a must for me!)

1/3 c pine nuts (I buy in bulk and store in freezer to keep fresh)

1/4 c water

2 Tbsp Italian seasoning

5 cloves garlic, chopped or pressed

Juice of 1 lemon

Salt and pepper to taste

What you do:

1. Water saute veggies and garlic until tender (If using frozen rice, add it now).

2. Add Italian Seasoning, pine nuts, and salt and pepper. Continue to cook over low heat.

3. Add the cooked wild rice and lemon juice. Cook for an additional 3 minutes. Season with additional salt and pepper if needed. Serve and enjoy!

Why pine nuts??

You may or may not be avoiding oil in your diet. We try to limit oil or avoid it altogether. There is a lot of misinformation out about oils; healthy oils vs unhealthy oils. In my opinion, no oil is a good oil to ingest. Oils, are highly processed and nearly all the nutrients are removed, leaving behind a highly caloric fatty food devoid of any nutritional value.

Pine nuts solve this problem. By cooking pine nuts, the natural oils are slowly released into the food, keeping the nutrients, while providing that "lightly oiled" flavor/feel. I absolutely love using them for meals like this because it seems to pull everything together like oil would, while providing calorically dense nutrients, without the unwanted empty calories and fat. If you've never tried this, it is a must!

Click here for more information on the health benefits of pine nuts.

Below are a couple links to get you started on the journey of researching oils; I always encourage you to learn and find what works for you!

Dr. Esselstyn on oil

Engine 2 on Oil

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Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Never Let Your Fear Decide Your Fate

Driving home today, one of my favorite songs (Awolnation's "Kill Your Heroes") came on the radio, and I was reminded an important life lesson I try to live by every day: "Never let your fear decide your fate."

How often do we go through life, making decisions based on fear? We grow up as innocent children with the entire future ahead of us. Somewhere along the way, our spirit takes a beating, and we lose sight of our purpose, dreams, and instincts. We begin to believe the hearsay of others, and we forget that we have the power and ability to achieve anything we set our minds to.

As children we're told we can be anything we want to be when we grow up. So why does that change once we get there? We second guess ourselves as adults, and believe our dreams are unattainable. We begin living the life we "should" be living, instead of the one we really want to be living.


As we navigate our way through life, we are questioned. Sometimes we're ridiculed. We're even frowned upon for following a path different from the path society has set forth. Who makes the rules? Who says you can't wear two different colored shoes? Who says you have to match? Who says you will never walk again after a terrible accident? Who says you can never travel the world? Who says you have to go to college to be successful? Who says you will never be able to run your own business? Who decides what you will be? Who decides what you will believe? Who decides your fate???

I have stumbled many times in life, teetering on the edge between my instincts (my core being) and fear. Sometimes fear wins, but only momentarily, because I know it's never the right course.

Since having Nya, I try to be more mindful of the decisions I make: Is it a decision based on fear? Or am I coming from a sound place, backed by research, instinct, and love?

I let go and trust the process, as difficult as that can sometimes be, and with each step, that inner voice and gut instinct become a little bit stronger, until it's screaming from inside me.

I realize how short this life is that we're given. I know how precious every moment is, and I no longer choose to decide my fate, nor the fate of my family, based on fear that society, friends, family, myself, nor anyone else may try to place upon me.

It still can be scary venturing forward; stepping into the unknown and following your dreams, or going against the rest of society. But sometimes you have to push through that in order to get to where you were meant to be. And when you do, you come out on the other side stronger, more alive, and with a much louder inner voice.

Never let your fear decide your fate.

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Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Life is a Journey...

Patience. It is something I've always seemed to lack. Luckily, when Nya was born, I found all the patience in the world, and when it comes to her, I can handle anything. But when it comes to situations I'm faced with, I just don't have any.

Most things have always come easily and naturally for me, so when something takes a little more time or I struggle with it, I get frustrated and don't want to deal with it.

I don't mind a hiccup here and there, but when it becomes one thing after another, or the "simple problem" is not fixed with a simple solution, I lose my mind!

I spent THREE hours of my time trying to fix one problem after another. And after those precious three hours, nothing I had set out to accomplish actually was accomplished. This frustrates me to no end.

Since becoming a stay at home, working mommy, my time has become even more precious. My day is filled with Nya, and my nights are filled with writing, catching up with friends, and working on my business, Loving Green Baby (I'm so close to launching but not quite there...time!). So when an obstacle is presented, I cringe inside because I don't want to stop and work around it.

This is a horrible quality I possess, and I'm already seeing signs of it in Nya. She gets frustrated when presented with a challenge she can't easily tackle. I want her to enjoy the process and be proud of sticking with it instead of focusing on the end result.

How do I teach her to have patience with the process if I can't even do that myself?


I think about this a lot as I see Nya grow, and it is always something that weighs heavily in the back of my mind. I want better for Nya than I am for myself. I don't want my negative hang ups to become her negative hang ups. I don't want my mistakes to become her mistakes.

Do as I say and not as I do? This just doesn't work for my type of parenting. I don't believe I can ask something of my daughter, that I am unable to do myself; it feels hypercritical. The best I can do as a parent is to lead by example, and having Nya has forced me to take a long hard look at myself and recognize those qualities that desperately need improving.

I am a work in progress... I realize this. I may still get frustrated. I may feel like I'm losing my mind. But I will not give up. I don't want Nya to give up on something simply because she doesn't get it the first time.

This is what life is about: Learning. Working through problems. Continuous education. Keeping an open mind. And most importantly, enjoying the process along the way.   

Life is a journey. Not a destination....

What are some things you struggle with? Do you worry about this at all? Please share your thoughts below! 

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Sunday, October 12, 2014

Chocolate Ice Cream (Dairy and Refined Sugar Free) - This is perfect for picky eaters!

Can't get your kids to eat their veggies? NOT a problem when you dish up this decadently creamy chocolate ice cream (and it's not made from bananas; although we still love our Yonana Ice Cream!).


I know getting your little ones to eat their veggies, especially their green veggies, can sometimes be a chore, so I'm always looking for ways to recreate traditional foods into something not only delicious, but healthy too.

If your child doesn't want to eat his broccoli, or is having a fit over the collards you cooked up, don't stress about it. I'm not a huge fan of cooked collards myself, but I consume them almost daily by pureeing them into other foods. Greens are one of the simplest foods to conceal because they don't alter the taste of the main dish. I always have some mixed greens (kale, spinach, collards, and chard) on hand in the freezer to add in to just about everything.


I don't know what possessed me to try making chocolate ice cream this way, but I am so glad I did. My ice cream maker had been sitting in its box, packed away in the garage, waiting to be sold for over a year now. Jamie and I had received it as a gift years ago and were so excited to have it... Until we used it the first time. It was a pain! We anxiously went to the store to gather up our goodies and ended up spending over $20 just to make one small batch of ice cream that didn't even taste all that great. It was a disaster.

And after all this time, something inside me decided to pull it out, clean it off, and store it in the freezer yesterday so Nya and I could tackle a new experiment today.


This will literally change the way you think of ice cream, health food, and the endless struggle you have every week about your children getting enough nutrients. It has the "fatty" feel of ice cream that yonanas tends to lack, and the taste and texture is spot on to what you would buy at the store. The only difference? You can eat this ice cream every day if you wanted because there's nothing bad about itWith only 4 ingredients, this chocolate ice cream is easy, cheap, healthy, creamy, and almost too good to be true.

What you need: 

* 1 can coconut milk (light and full fat work equally well)

1.5 c loosely packed greens

1 c dates

2 Tbsp Raw Cacao

What you do:

1. Check with your ice cream maker. The insert typically needs to be stored in the freezer for 24 hours.

2. Combine all ingredients in a high speed blender and puree until smooth.


3. Assemble your ice cream maker and use according to instructions. (I had to turn mine on, then pour the batter into it. I let it run on its own for about 10 minutes, until it had hardened considerably).

4. Enjoy as soft served, or scoop into container and store in freezer to harden more.

Enjoy!

Important Notes:

  • Don't skip the greens thinking your kids won't eat it. I promise you, they won't be able to tell! 
  • You do need an ice cream maker for this recipe. If you don't have one, don't fret! You can always pour the "batter" into a silicon or paraffin wrapped dish, and store in the freezer until it hardens. It will take a bit longer but it still works in a pinch!
  • You can sub maple syrup, agave, or sugar in place of dates, but try not to. All of them are processed, reducing the quality (if any) of nutrients. You really want to stick to whole foods, so keep the dates!
  • Hemp, cashew, walnut, almond, and pecan are all great milk substitutes for coconut; however, be wary of store bought. Most are loaded with added sugars and are highly processed. To make your own, you want to use a slightly different ratio than you would for traditionally making plant milk. 
      *   Use 3/4 c nut/grain and 2 c water.


Other ideas to get those greens in:

  • DIY Milk - Puree 1 c of greens to 1 c of milk (1/4 c grain or nut: 1 c water + 1 c greens  and blend until smooth - add sweeteners if you must!)
  • Smoothies & Popsicles - 60% greens to 40% fruit. Add nuts, seeds, and or grains for a more complete meal.

I really hope you give this ice cream a try. Simply because you will be giving your children a treat that is good for them. Share your chocolate ice cream on our Facebook page, Loving Green, or tag it with #LovingGreenBaby.

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Monday, October 6, 2014

Baked Ziti - Dairy Free!

Every once in awhile I crave those "cheesy" feel-good, comfort dishes. Before eliminating dairy, I didn't think they were possible to recreate, but I have found they taste SO MUCH BETTER.

My goal is always to recreate traditional dishes into a clean version; not just lower in calories and fat, but with real food that builds up your immune system as opposed to breaking it down. You CAN enjoy your favorite foods without the health risks associated with them.

There is no cholesterol and 35 grams of protein per serving. 

I've made baked ziti a few times and have always adapted it slightly. This weekend I made my best batch yet, and couldn't wait to share it with you. The ricotta cheeze mixture in this recipe can be used to stuff shells, manicotti, ravioli, or layered in lasagna. Click here to check out my favorite clean eating lasagna recipe. But whatever you do, don't substitute "fake" cheeze. It's processed, and does not taste the same!


This baked ziti is extremely filling, but not the food-coma, bloated feeling that dairy leaves you with. It freezes well, so is great for later meals when you need something quick.

Don't worry about the ricotta cheeze being too runny. The cashews absorb water and the flax helps to thicken it as it bakes. I usually use jarred marinara sauce, but I have made my own when I'm feeling adventurous. It is pretty easy to whip up, but sometimes that extra step is just too much. Do what you have time for!

Shredded broccoli, carrot, or cauliflower all make excellent vegetable add-ins if you want to skip the zucchini. Don't be afraid to experiment! 

And lastly before we get started, sorry for the lack of photos... Nya was helping me and it can be a bit of a challenge to remember to snap with each step!

What you need: 

1 jar (about 25 ounces) marinara sauce (I use this one) or sub homemade marinara below

16 ounces organic ziti pasta (or sub another pasta preference - make sure it's organic to avoid genetically modified wheat. Also, many pastas add a lot of fillers, so look for ones with only one ingredient.

2 - 3 small zucchini, shredded (Buy organic to avoid GMOs)

Ricotta Cheeze

18 - 20 ounces organic, non-GMO tofu, extra firm (90% of soy is genetically modified, so make sure to look for non-GMO)

1 c fresh basil loosely packed

1 c mixed greens (I used a combination of kale, spinach, and chard)

2 tsp garlic powder (or 10 cloves garlic)

1 c raw cashews

Juice of 1 lemon

1/2 c nutritional yeast

1 Tbsp ground flax

1/2 tsp sea salt

1/4 tsp black pepper

1 c water

"Parmesan Cheeze" 

1/2 c almond flour (you can use almond meal but the flour works best because the almonds are blanched and it's more fine)

1/4 c nutritional yeast

What you do:

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. 

2. Cook the pasta until it just becomes al dente, then drain and rinse in cool water. Set aside.

3. Make the ricotta cheeze: Blend all ingredients in a high speed blender until smooth.

4. Pour half a jar of marina sauce (or 1/2 of the homemade marinara sauce) in the bottom of a 13 x 9 pan, making sure to coat well.

5. Pour pasta, shredded zucchini, and ricotta cheeze into the baking dish, mixing to evenly distribute.

6. Pour remaining sauce on top, without mixing.

7. Sprinkle Parmesan mixture on top of the sauce. (I didn't bother mixing beforehand. I sprinkled the almond flour first, then topped it with the nutritional yeast. Do whatever is easier for you!)

8. Cover with foil and bake for 70 minutes. Serves 10.


* Homemade Marinara 

3 cans diced tomatoes (fire roasted work best)

1 large onion, chopped

5 cloves garlic, pressed

1 Tbsp dried oregano

1/4 c fresh basil, chopped

Water saute onion and garlic until translucent. Add basil, oregano, and diced tomatoes and continue cooking on med heat, stirring occasionally. After about 15 minutes, mash the mixture or pulse in food processor/high speed blender.

Enjoy!!


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Tuesday, September 30, 2014

All About the Attitude.

I had been in a bit of a funk; tired of doing everything myself, missing family, annoyed with the narrow minded questions, hurt by friends, overwhelmed with business, missing Jamie, and wondering where in the world we were going to be in 6 months. I was bitter with Jamie for not being around, and obsessing what his orders would say: home for Christmas for a couple weeks before off again for another 8 months, or home next year but hopefully for awhile? I was stressing out over things I had absolutely no control over, and I was allowing those things to get the better of me.

It had been almost a week since my mom flew back home, and nearly three weeks since we'd talked with Jamie. Life was beginning to bring me down, and I was feeling out of sorts.

This is when Nya began acting out. It was as if this sweet little child of mine was gone, replaced by someone I didn't even recognize. She was whiny, over-dramatic, and just not happy. Is this the terrible twos, I wondered?

I did not want to deal with her. My energy was completely drained by the end of the day after remaining calm through her endless outbursts. I had never looked so forward to her bedtime, but I had nothing left for myself, and did not want to write or work on all the many things I needed to do.

I was not liking my daughter very much, and that made me feel like the worst mother in the entire world. 

How could I possibly feel this way about the daughter I love so much? About the daughter I am so thankful to have? About the daughter that has taught me about unconditional love, and has brought me more joy than I have ever known?

This lasted about three days. I went to bed that third night and realized I needed to change my attitude. I had to pull myself out of this funk and get my act together. Whatever happens is meant to be, and my stressing over things and feeling down does not help anyone or anything.

The next morning I woke up in somewhat of a better mood. I was still feeling sad inside and it was a struggle to change my mind set completely. But I forced myself. I focused all of my energy on finding the good in my life, and chose to just be happy.


It sounds really simple, but it's not always easy to do. It was a challenge. Yet after only two hours, I began to feel happier. I began to appreciate the good things. My outlook was positive. And suddenly, gone were the feelings of bitterness, annoyance, resentment, anger, and frustration,

My attitude was in my control; I just had to take ownership of it.

When I changed my attitude, it was like a light was turned on in Nya. Her change in behavior was instantaneous when I changed mine.

Gone was the little girl who overreacted to everything. Gone was the little girl who whined over taking a bath. Gone was the little girl who cried because I asked her a question.

I felt like my little girl was back...The happy, calm, level-headed, understanding girl was back.

I know Nya reacts to the energy that's around her. I've seen it first hand a few times, and am aware how a small change in the environment has a large impact on her behavior. But it's still hard to believe how drastically different Nya is when my mood is unhappy.

Nya still is a typical toddler and has her moments. However, they are short lived. I'm able to talk and reason with her. She still tries to test me from time to time to see what I will allow her to get away with. Yet nothing has been like it was for those three days where I didn't know how I was going to get through the rest of this deployment.

I wondered if it was Jamie being gone, or my mom just leaving, or the dreaded terrible twos. Those things certainly could have contributed to her outbursts. But the immediate change was too drastic to be attributed to anything other than the change in my attitude.

Being a parent is one of the most difficult jobs. Especially when you care so much. Being a "single", stay at home mom is even more difficult. You get frustrated. You get tired. You get angry. You get lonely. But our children look up to us for guidance. We are shaping how they feel about themselves, and how they choose to view the world.

I had asked my Loving Green family on Facebook how they handled difficult times, and I got some amazing responses. Find something that works for you. Remember how short and precious life is, and choose your "happy".


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Saturday, September 13, 2014

Raw Chocolate Chip Almond Butter Bars (Vegan, Gluten Free, Sugar Free)

This has been a crazy week with school and Spanish class starting for my little one. We had been on the go since Monday morning, and I couldn't wait for Friday to roll around...the one day we had no where to be and nothing to do. I was planning on taking it easy, and with all the rain that Friday brought, that turned out to be easier than expected!

Nya and I spent much of the afternoon in the kitchen. We created lots of new snacks for school, and this was by far our favorite. 


What I love about these...
  • You can eat them 3 ways (Raw, Living, Baked)
  • Minimal ingredients
  • Refined Sugar Free
  • Gluten Free
  • Vegan
  • Tastes like dessert -- they are DELICIOUS!
If you bake them in the oven or dehydrate them to keep living, they have a soft and chewy texture similar to a cereal bar or cookie. If you eat them raw, the texture is more sticky and the flavor a little more pronounced. If you're short on time, I'd roll them into balls, store in the fridge, and eat on the go! Either way you decide to go, the taste is AMAZING.


What you need:
  • 2 c  gluten-free rolled oats
  • 1/2 c coconut flour
  • 1 c dates blended with 3/4 c water until completely smooth
  • 3/4 c natural almond butter (nothing added)
  • 1 tsp pure vanilla
  • 1/4 tsp pink Himalayan salt
  • 1/2 c vegan chocolate chips (I love Enjoy Life mini's for this!)

What you do:

1. Combine dry ingredients (except chocolate chips) in a medium mixing bowl.

2. Add pureed dates, almond butter, and vanilla to the dry ingredients and stir to combine.

3. Stir in chocolate chips.

For No Bake Bites....

4. Roll into balls, refrigerate, and eat as desired. They also freeze well if you make extra.

For Living Bars....

4. Spread evenly, about 1/2 inch thick on a dehydrator rack and form into a square or rectangle (for easier cutting). Dehydrate at 115 (to keep living/raw) for about 5 hours. You should be able to cut them easily and they will hold shape when they are done.

5. Once cooled, cut into even rectangles. Store in fridge or freezer. Makes 12 bars.

For Baked Granola Bars...

4. Scoop and spread evenly into an 9 x 12 silicon pan. Bake at 325 for roughly 20 minutes until the bars are easy to cut and hold their shape. 

5. Once cooled, cut into even rectangles. Store in fridge or freezer. Makes 12 bars.

Notes:
  • If baking or dehydrating, be careful not to leave in too long or they will be dry and fall apart.
  • Use cacao nibs if you can...they're bitter and don't melt the same, but much healthier for little ones; or just skip the chips altogether!
These are great snacks, packed in a lunch box, or enjoyed as a dessert. Your kids will LOVE them!

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Thursday, September 11, 2014

Faking it... The First Day of School.

Nya began her first day of preschool Monday. The day I had been looking forward to and dreading, all in one.

We made the decision months ago that Nya would greatly benefit from preschool, and thus, began the tiring search of finding the right fit.

From the moment I enrolled her, I questioned our decision. I felt guilty.

Deep down I knew this was the right thing for her. She is young, but each child is different. I knew she would be ok, but there was still that fear and panic inside that haunted my thoughts. I had only left her a handful of times with either my husband or a close friend.

Was I ready for this?

The day before the big day, I was sick to my stomach. I didn't want my fears and hang ups to plague her experience. So I did what I began doing from the day she was born.

I faked it.

Inside I was a wreck, but outwardly, I was calm, cool, and happy. We talked all about it. It was just another day with another new adventure. Nya picked out her lunchbox and backpack. We read about Llama Llama going to school and missing his mamma. We talked about her teachers and the friends she would get to play with. I never put fear in her head, and I kept my emotions out of it.

Monday morning arrived and when I went into her room, Nya eagerly jumped out of bed exclaiming, "I go to preschool today!" She picked out her outfit with mismatching shoes, we grabbed a quick breakfast, and then I tried to capture this special moment in time before we headed off. I had seen the Pinterest pictures. I made my chalkboard sign. I was ready.

Unfortunately, Nya had other plans, and downright refused to let me get her photo...

Our "memory" of the first day of school. She is NOT into photos at the moment!
So off we headed to school. We got there early so Nya had enough time to use the potty and get comfortable with her surroundings. I made my goodbye brief and happy, and immediately walked away.

She didn't even watch me go. It was in that moment that my heart broke and beamed all at the same time. I was a flood of emotions. I was thankful and happy that she was so fine with me leaving, but selfishly, I wanted her to miss me as much as my heart was missing her.

I felt a little lost, and unsure of what to do with this new found freedom.

The entire three hours that Nya was in class, I counted down the minutes, envisioning our happy reunion.

I was sure she would squeal my name and run into my arms when she saw me, as she has the handful of times I have left her with Jamie.

But that moment never came. Nya was too engrossed in after school play to even notice me. She asked me to take her to the potty, then wanted to go back to play with her new friends. My already broken heart, dropped a little further.

Nya with her teachers after school.
I took that time to talk with her teachers, Nya did awesome and absolutely loved it. She told them when she needed to use the potty (one of my major worries), shared well with the other kids, and confidently navigated all of the lesson plans.

Nya was calm, confident, and happy. That is exactly what I want as a parent. So why has a piece of my heart fallen away?

More than the preschool, I realized this was just the first of many new firsts she'll have. She's growing up, and won't need me as much as she once did. Our relationship will never be the same.

Nya's her own person, independently navigating her path in this world. No longer my little baby, I wont always be at her side to protect her. All I can do is continue to raise her to think for herself, and love her unconditionally with everything I have. I pray for her to always be that calm, confident, and happy little girl as she continues her journey in life.

To many many more successful firsts!

This never happens anymore! Exhausted and asleep on the drive home from preschool.
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